I was in New Paltz, New York this past Saturday. If you live within a few hours I highly recommend it for a day trip. New Paltz is a combination of rural bohemia with an urban feel to it. Orchards, vineyards, gardens, and corn fields. Mountain bike riding, hiking, and some of the best rock climbing and bouldering in the area are all a part of New Paltz’s connection with its amazing geography. The center of town is dotted with antique shops, restaurants, book stores, clothing stores, and a few stores that I wasn’t sure what the hell they were selling. It is a “live and let live” kind of town. My kind of town.
To the west of New Paltz, about five miles, is the Shawangunk Mountains. The high cliffs attract thousands of mountain climbers each year. At the top of the Shawangunk ridge is the Mohonk Mountain House, a historic hotel with breath-taking views and walking trails. The labyrinth is a great bouldering experience through awesome rock formations and a vertical climb up a ladder at the Lemon Squeeze section. There is also a lake for swimming and boating, or you can just stroll through the flower gardens.
New Paltz has a laid-back feel to it but it is far from being a trip for the lazy or lethargic. You will walk a lot in New Paltz. The main street has a lot of smaller back streets and alleys with cool little shops and gallery’s. The weather was perfect…warm with an occassional breeze that let you know Autumn was right around the corner. I turned a corner and there she was. I hadn’t seen Autumn in almost twenty years. We had met at the Raliegh Hotel in the Catskills when we were both twelve years old. A difficult age full of questions and a yearning for adult pleasures. She was there for the weekend with her Orthodox Jewish parents and I was their with my religiously mixed dysfunctional family.
The kids took part in sporting events and contests with the counselors. I met her at the starting line for a 200 yard dash. I was the fastest kid in my school so I had no doubts I would crush everyone in this event. A counselor named Ira whined the word “Go” and we were off. As I predicted I blew everyone away. Autumn had taken a nasty spill just short of the finish line. I turned around and she was on the ground holding her foot. I came over and asked if she was okay. “I’m fine,” she snapped. I reached down to help her up but instead of taking my hand she asked, ” What are you doing? I said I’m fine you stupid douche-bag”. She stood up, shoved me, and I was in love. We started walking and I turned to her and said, “You’re a stupid douche-bag”. She laughed as she grabbed my hand.
It was one of the most memorable weekends of my life. I asked Autumn what she was doing in New Paltz and she told me she was just visiting for the day. She told me about her life. Two divorces and no kids. She worked in finance and had done very well for herself. She was just as beautiful as she was when we first met. Her smile was an easy one and her ripped jeans made you feel comfortable. She was the one that got away. We talked for hours and didn’t even realize that the sun had faded and nightfall was easing its way into its usual place. She gave me her phone number and told me to call but I knew I never would. It’s not easy to recapture old feelings, especially after all of these years. She had been through a couple of messy divorces that left her battered and bruised. My life had taken a similar path without the mess.
As we walked away in opposite directions I looked down at the note she had given me with her number on it. It read, “At 12, you were the best man I had ever known and you haven’t changed at all. I have never forgotten you. If you want to find me, you will”. There was no phone number. I smiled as I walked to my truck and thought, ” She was the coolest chick I had ever met and she hadn’t changed at all”. Next post: Searching for Autumn…tune in…you will not want to miss what happens.